Posts by Son of Man

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A sad call from an older brother

by life is to short in

jw
friends

we got a call a couple of days ago from this older brother in the hall.

he is a great guy who is in his eighties.

he has a very hard time walking and just getting around because of old age but he is the kindest man.

Son of Man

I am making such a deal out of it because it affects me. I have a husband who is older than I am and I can see what my life will be like when he get that age and it is depressing, sad, and very frustrating. My husband is already that way really has been for along time.

And no this man is not HAPPY and he is not enjoying his life. He is putting himself out there to do what some religion has brainwashed him into believing that God demands of them. That is why I am making a big deal out of it. Because it is sad that this religion makes people feel guilt. And we just sit back and help them by saying well if it makes him happy. It is crazy.

Is anything that you tell this man going to change his way of thinking and way of life? Have you even tried? The point of the matter is that people believe what they do for one reason or another, even is another person can show to them from the bible that their way of thinking is not correct. Treat one another with love and respect and put up with one another. One Law will unify all peoples, nations, and tongues. That is the purpose of The Kingdom of GOD is it not? Until then all you can do is state your opinon, but why waste your time and energy? If one does not listen and agree with you then move on to another that does. You will either instruct them on what might be a correct understanding of what you read, or mislead them. Love and unity will bring people together before disagreement upon what is written will. There are many people that feel the way you do of course and it is obvious by the many people within this forum. This mans sole purpose is to serve GOD the way he knows best, so praise this man for his belief and faith in GOD.......

t.f.d.s.

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A sad call from an older brother

by life is to short in

jw
friends

we got a call a couple of days ago from this older brother in the hall.

he is a great guy who is in his eighties.

he has a very hard time walking and just getting around because of old age but he is the kindest man.

Son of Man

I do not get the ones who feel that he is doing God's work. Really you truly feel that way? How is this God's work making this older man depressed and bugging people. I just do not get it.

Does GOD prefer that you instruct others from the bible where you have a listening ear or not? I would say that Yes HE does, for it helps them to cope with their everyday life and avoiding all of the badness associated with things like drug and alcohol abuse will improve their lives. Only GOD has the truth and He will reveal it to us in due season. Are your personal beliefs "The Truth"? All we can say is we strive to learn and adapt to truth. No one can claim that they have the "Truth". This man has chosen to do what he does just as you have. GOD will never condemn a person for doing what they feel is right under any circumstance. So let this man be and let each person decide for themselves what they choose to belief. That is the meaning of "Do Not Judge" as Jesus Christ taught.......

t.f.d.s.

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According to bookstudy, it's ok to beat wife.....occassionally

by JWinprotest in

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i apologize if this has been mentioned, but i don't have the time to come on here as often.

yesterday's bookstudy on divorce got my shorts in a bit of a knot.

apparently, according to the god's love book, a wife could consider legal separation from her husband if she is physically abused, but (get this) only in the case of extreme physical abuse, and if the wife's life is in danger.

Son of Man

My experience was a bit mixed. My husband was an unbeliever, and I went to the elders more than once to talk to them about the abuse. They did not discourage me from leaving him but only reminded me that I would have to always stay single unless I could prove he committed adultry. In my case, the pressure came from my own family. My father used to ask me, when he was being abusive, "what did you do to make him angry?" Always implying that it was somehow my fault that I was being treated that way. This isn't too surprising, though my dad was an elder at the time, because he used to beat my brothers with closed fists when he was angry at them. He only beat me that way one time, but he felt too bad for hitting a female, and I made sure I (at that time) didn't let him forget that guilt.

My parents told me all my life that I need to marry a "strong man" in order to control me, because all my life I labored under that dreaded label for female witnesses: independent and willful

The thought was I needed someone to knock it out of me.

Pitiful, really. At any rate I shed the husband and the religion all at the same time.

Ada

Divorce is allowable on grounds of fornication. What is fornication? Anything that is contrary to the Laws of GOD is fornication. You are mixing with the "Unclean" things of this world when you commit fornication. Abusing your spouse is "Fornication" because it is unlawful to not treat your wife with love and compassion.........fornication is not just about sexual immorality. Read the scriptures for yourself with this in mind and it will make more sense.......

t.f.d.s.

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According to bookstudy, it's ok to beat wife.....occassionally

by JWinprotest in

jw
friends

i apologize if this has been mentioned, but i don't have the time to come on here as often.

yesterday's bookstudy on divorce got my shorts in a bit of a knot.

apparently, according to the god's love book, a wife could consider legal separation from her husband if she is physically abused, but (get this) only in the case of extreme physical abuse, and if the wife's life is in danger.

Son of Man

How many of you have gone though lief without getting angry? Not a single person that will read or post a comment on this thread can say they never have. To have self control over all of your emotions in perfection is everyones goal is it not? It is wrong to expand on someones words and make it into something that was never said. Each circumstance has to be looked at in order to make a determination. It is wrong to abuse your wife it is true, however the type of conduct that constitutes has to be weighed out. If it is labeled as abuse after the circumstances have been reviewed then a problem exists and remedy has to be sought out. This seems to be the meaning of what I read so how can anyone form a different opinion on the matter?

t.f.d.s.

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A sad call from an older brother

by life is to short in

jw
friends

we got a call a couple of days ago from this older brother in the hall.

he is a great guy who is in his eighties.

he has a very hard time walking and just getting around because of old age but he is the kindest man.

Son of Man

No wonder this religion is full of people who and depressed the guilt placed on us is always there Yet We are the HAPPY PEOPLE! Yeh right. Any thoughts on how happy the JW's are.

If this man prefers to do what he does despite his age who is he hurting? If he feels a bit guilty because he cannot do what he feels pleases GOD who are you to question him? He has built up a conscience based upon the Fear of GOD, or taking in knowledge as written. This is praiseworthy, and The Almighty GOD will reward him. Having to live in the unrighteous world causes depression whereas serving GOD helps to relieve it. Do you not know the difference between good and bad? Is it bad for this man to do his utmost in serving GOD. Never will that be the case.......now please move onto something more tangible instead of finding argument where it does not exist.

t.f.d.s.

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2 Questions For AGuest : )))

by snowbird in

a definition of god that works for me: the supernatural being(s) conceived as the perfect and omnipotent and omniscient originator(s) and ruler(s) of the universe; the object(s) of worship by those who believe thusly.. *i added the parentheticals because i believe there are two beings that make up the one god.*.

1. do you agree with that definition?.

2. what do you believe was the role of the son before his incarnation, and do you believe he is a creature?.

Son of Man

The Almighty GOD has no beginning or no end and is the beginning and the end; The Alpha and The Omega. He is the all knowing for all that there is to know. Imagine if you will a perfect circle, it has no beginning or no end, so does it mean that GOD is circular? Does it mean that HE was just there and was not created or begat? Perhaps a being came into existence based upon all that exists. Perhaps this being grew and became intelligent over a period of time overtaking all in existence. In order to have control over all that exists you have to be more powerful than it correct?

All I know is that I exist and whatever I see around me as well. I do not believe in something I cannot see such as particles too small for the naked eye to see. However when man proves that it does exists then there is a bases for me to believe. Perfect order in life forms although in an imperfect state for now proves that there is intelligence out there. One higher than me because I cannot explain my existence other than someone created my species.

Read what the bible says because it fortells the future. Come to know GOD by what you read about Him always giving way to the benefit of the doubt where you do not understand what you read. All in all we all have the same ability to form thought processes and feel emotions so all creation is similar. That in itself is prove that life is based upon law or the Word of GOD.

What does "Worship" mean? It means that we follow the Word of the One who created us, or His Laws.......

t.f.d.s.

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Those Whose Faith is in the Bible as the Word of God..

by AGuest in

may you have peace!.

i have been directed by the holy spirit to bring something to your attention and ask you with regard to it:.

matthew 17:1-13 gives an account of the transfiguration of my lord, when he was seen with elijah and moses... which was witnessed by peter, james, and john.

Son of Man

Temporal Lobe epilepsy may be a big factor behind many of the visions recorded in the bible, and shear dishonesty, born from indoctrination from ones youth into a certain mythology.

Hmmmm, I think I will believe you

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Those Whose Faith is in the Bible as the Word of God..

by AGuest in

may you have peace!.

i have been directed by the holy spirit to bring something to your attention and ask you with regard to it:.

matthew 17:1-13 gives an account of the transfiguration of my lord, when he was seen with elijah and moses... which was witnessed by peter, james, and john.

Son of Man

4 Then Jesus said to his disciples: “If anyone wants to come after me, let him disown himself and pick up his torture stake and continually follow me. 25 For whoever wants to save his soul will lose it; but whoever loses his soul for my sake will find it. 26 For what benefit will it be to a man if he gains the whole world but forfeits his soul? or what will a man give in exchange for his soul? 27 For the Son of man is destined to come in the glory of his Father with his angels, and then he will recompense each one according to his behavior. 28 Truly I say to YOU that there are some of those standing here that will not taste death at all until first they see the Son of man coming in his kingdom.”

23 Then he went on to say to all: “If anyone wants to come after me, let him disown himself and pick up his torture stake day after day and follow me continually. 24 For whoever wants to save his soul will lose it; but whoever loses his soul for my sake is the one that will save it. 25 Really, what does a man benefit himself if he gains the whole world but loses his own self or suffers damage? 26 For whoever becomes ashamed of me and of my words, the Son of man will be ashamed of this one when he arrives in his glory and that of the Father and of the holy angels. 27 But I tell YOU truthfully, There are some of those standing here that will not taste death at all until first they see the kingdom of God.”

Same accounts with similarities and subtle variances. What meaning do you derive from the scripture? Semantics can cause divisions, so bring together what you read from the scriptures in order to grasp the meaning. Does the bible foretell the future? Yes it does..........who else can do this with such accuracy?

t.f.d.s.

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Fade rapidly OR jeopardise the fade by helping family/friends learn the truth and remain part of our lives?

by LUKEWARM in

jw
friends

can i say from the outset that i feel grief and frustration over family/friends that are not aware of the truth about the "truth".

they are good people who genuinely believe - as we all did at one time- that they are in gods organization and that this is what he requires of them.. .

how liberating for us to have come to know the real truth and how sad they remain guilt ridden and under mind control that fosters these conditional friendships that bother us so much.. .

Son of Man

You have chosen to take a stand for your beliefs. If it is your goal in life to spread information about the W.T.S. then that is what you will do. Be open about your own beliefs and allow your family members to choose their own path. Your side of the conversation will be that you do not believe in the teachings of the W.T.S. any longer. Your families side will be that they still do. If you could find common ground and agree to disagree while remaining in a loving relationship with your family then you have gained both. More than likely your family might take a stand against you and label you as an apostate. The choice is yours just approach it with love.......

t.f.d.s.

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Those Whose Faith is in the Bible as the Word of God..

by AGuest in

may you have peace!.

i have been directed by the holy spirit to bring something to your attention and ask you with regard to it:.

matthew 17:1-13 gives an account of the transfiguration of my lord, when he was seen with elijah and moses... which was witnessed by peter, james, and john.

Son of Man

1 Six days later Jesus took Peter and James and John his brother along and brought them up into a lofty mountain by themselves.

28 In actual fact, about eight days after these words, he took Peter and John and James along and climbed up into the mountain to pray.

If you notice, there is a difference in the words written. What does it mean when it reads: "eight days after these words" ? Which words are they referring to? When you answer that then we can continue...........

t.f.d.s.